# About Name: Aisle Description: People fall in love. People on Aisle rise in forever romance. 20 million members later, we're still amazed at the love stories that come to us. They're smart, old-fashioned but oh-so-relatable. Happy browsing! URL: https://blog.aisle.co # Navigation Menu - Search: https://blog.aisle.co/search - Love Stories: https://blog.aisle.co - Aisle: https://www.aisle.co - Download Aisle: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.aisle.app&hl=en_IN&gl=US&pli=1 # Blog Posts ## Tanya & Gaurav - From a Quiet Start to a Grand Proposal Author: Team Aisle Published: 2025-04-28 Tags: stories, aisle, love, online dating URL: https://blog.aisle.co/tanya-and-gaurav-from-lows-to-highs-always-together-cma0j6yfu0025w91upx9mxkkx Tanya wasn’t actively looking for love when [**Aisle**](https://aisle.onelink.me/KgP7/lgm43a0b) entered her life. Having devoted all her time to her career, she was sat down and encouraged by her friend to [**download Aisle**](https://aisle.onelink.me/KgP7/lgm43a0b). By the time she returned to Mumbai from a business trip, the app had quietly been collecting matches for her. One pop-up caught her eye: “A lot of people are waiting for you.” And among them, was Gaurav. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/2-1745812708129-compressed.png) Gaurav, eight years older than Tanya, was in Mumbai at the time for his mother’s medical treatment. As Gaurav was a Concierge member on Aisle, his message stood out to her - not cheesy, not forced. It was simple, clear, and respectful. “I really like your profile. Would you mind talking?” Tanya noticed his profile: articulate, and with just the right amount of information. No frills, no exaggerated self-descriptions. He seemed serious about settling down, just like her. There was an initial hesitation about the age gap, but something about him made her want to talk more. “Let’s just give it a try,” she thought. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1-1745812731670-compressed.png) Their first conversation happening in the passing of their busy lives. And then, silence. Work pulled them in opposite directions. But in March 2024, Gaurav reached out again, this time with an apology and a promise: “Life got in the way, but I’d still love to know you.” And just like that, the conversation that had once died down, was reignited. Despite their differences in personalities, their core values aligned - both were Punjabi, both deeply rooted in family, both certain about finding a life partner who truly understood them. For months, their relationship grew over video calls and messages. Then, in July, on Tanya’s birthday, Gaurav surprised her by flying to Mumbai. It was their first in-person meeting, and that’s when he told her: “I’m sure about you. I don’t want to rush you, but I want you to think about it.” A month later, Tanya took a flight to Goa, where Gaurav’s family had moved. His mother was unwell, and Tanya knew it was important to be there. When she met her, something profound happened - Gaurav’s mother saw her and, in that moment, knew Tanya was the one. Days later, on August 9th, she passed away, leaving behind the memory of her blessing. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/3-1745812768777-compressed.png) Their journey started with hardships - losing a loved one, navigating long-distance, and making life-altering decisions. But as Tanya puts it, _“_We started with our lows, and now we’ll share our highs.” By October, both of their families had met, making things official. Tanya says she always loved teasing Gaurav, “You never asked me out properly. You got me so easily!” He promised her the right moment would come. And it did. On their first anniversary of reconnecting - March 13th, during Holi - Tanya flew to Goa. Over a dinner planned by his friends, with music playing in the background, Gaurav finally did what she’d been waiting for. He got down on one knee, held out a ring, and said, “I love you. Will you marry me?” She said yes! ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/blog-thumbnail-1745813120139-compressed.png) _Aisle might've brought them together, but love, patience, and understanding are what made them stay. From a single message to months of long-distance, from shared grief to unwavering commitment, their journey was anything but ordinary. And yet, it all began with a quiet nudge - just a silent notification waiting to be opened._ --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Shweta & Vicky: Magic in the making! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2025-04-23 Tags: stories, aisle, love, online dating URL: https://blog.aisle.co/shweta-and-vicky-magic-in-the-making-cm7cslq4w000nstm2qhyzo7d6 Staying connected with loved ones has never been more challenging than it’s now. To know that people can still find love, nurture it and watch it grow during these times is nothing short of magical. So when Shweta and Vicky found each other, their journey can be nothing short of magical. Although both of them hail from Maharastra, Vicky has been working in Dubai for the past few years. “_It was a friend of mine who suggested_ **_[Aisle](https://aisle.onelink.me/KgP7/lgm43a0b)_**_, and I just thought why not. I knew what I wanted in a relationship, and so when I was using Rooms on_ **_Aisle_**_, nobody sparked my interest. It was around that time Vicky sent the first message, I knew I had to reply, and now, we’ve fixed our marriage for the end of the year._” chuckles Shweta while recalling how everything started. ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1740022948638-compressed.jpeg) “_Having gone through my share of bad relationships, I knew what I was looking for in one. When I came across her profile, I was awestruck. She had this picture with a bike, and that just intrigued me even more. And once we started talking, everything just fell into place. We didn’t have to put up a persona or worry about what to talk about, it just felt right._” Vicky adds. Their texts slowly turned to calls, and within two days of connecting, they were on a video call with each other. “_We were constantly in touch, and Vicky had to make a trip to India around that time as well. So two months into, we decided to meet when he flew down to India. We worked around his schedule and planned our date as well. A day before we were supposed to meet, he calls up and says he wants to meet me right then, and I said okay. We were talking the whole time, everything just felt natural with him. We were soo comfortable like we’ve known each other for years._” Shweta adds, recalling their first date. “ _I wasn’t sure how she’d take it. Months of planning and I just couldn’t wait any longer to meet her, and when she said yes, I was awestruck!!_” Vicky adds. ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1740022963669-compressed.jpeg) “_During the trip, he came to meet my family, even stayed a few days with us. We spent a few days with his parents and sister as well. Even after he left for Dubai, I spent half a month with my in-laws!! They even insisted that I stay with them during the lockdown. It was his mom who suggested that I visit him in Dubai, we even planned the whole thing out, and then the lockdown happened, so that plan is not happening for a while_.” Shweta adds. “_I’m not kidding when I say she’s closer to them than me. My mother couldn’t even wait, and gave her a ring when we met them the first time!!!”_ Vicky smiles_. “When we were meeting our families, I knew that I had to get her sister’s approval. It meant a lot to her, and after a long lunch, her sister gave me her seal of approval, I was good!_” Vicky adds. Not even a year into their relationship, they decided to tie the knot, “_Once our families met and spoke, everything was on track. We have our wedding fixed for the end of the year. We were planning everything so that I could go to Dubai after the marriage. The lockdown did put a pin on it for now_” Shweta adds. ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1740022974809-compressed.jpeg) “_We are extroverts, and both of us could probably talk each other’s ears off as well. But at the same time, we have different temperaments. I tend to be calmer. We both are huge foodies, and I love cooking. Both of us love to socialize. It’s not that we are poles apart, neither are we similar. We tend to complete each other._” Swetha blushes. “ _She is everything that I ever wanted in my partner. She’s more family-oriented than I am, all of them even have a group chat where I’ve no part. She’s an amazing Pubg Player!! We play almost every day. She’s a fantastic cook, even my parents are massive fans. She’s warm, confident, and makes me smile. We just fit together._” Vicky adds. _Aisle wishes this beautiful couple a lifetime of happiness and joy!_ --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Shraddha & Sekhar: Finding a balance! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2025-04-16 URL: https://blog.aisle.co/shraddha-and-sekhar-finding-a-balance-cm7cszupd000ostm2a526ex1m Opposites attract stands true for this adorable couple who balance each other out the best possible way! Early 2019 is when Shraddha and Sekhar got on [**Aisle**](https://aisle.onelink.me/KgP7/lgm43a0b) to see if they can find someone they could share their lives with. Guess what, they did! Sekhar came across Shraddha’s profile and knew he had to send her an Invite. “_I saw that there was an artsy, creative side to her which I really liked and so I thought why not try my luck!_” Shraddha on the other hand, after receiving the Invite felt that his message stood out from the rest of the crowd. _“Couple of things on his profile matched mine and what he had written was very simple and polite and I liked that approach of his, rather than the cheesy pick-up lines I was getting on other Invites,”_. ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1740023409518-compressed.png) Almost a month after connecting on [Aisle](https://www.aisle.co/#/home), the couple finally met for their first date. “_We met for dinner and we almost immediately hit it off. It didn’t feel like we were meeting for the first time at all. There was a certain level of comfort and we had such an easy conversation. It made us want to do this a few more times for sure_”, recalls Sekhar. To this Shraddha adds, “_Yes! The first date was excellent. When we met, from the initial “hi” it was like we’ve been friends for a very long time. We had a lot of similarities in terms of how we were brought up and we’ve both studied in the US so we had had common experiences. What I loved most about him was that there was absolutely no judgment. Usually, a lot of people tend to start drawing conclusions from the first time they meet you but with Sekhar, it was free and till today, I think that was our best date”_. Sekhar, from the beginning, was ready to take the big leap but Shraddha was on the fence about it. _“It was pretty evident that she wasn’t ready but I still stuck on and I persisted hard. There was this one night when we were dining and I honestly didn’t have anything planned and was really a spur of the moment and I popped the question and guess what, she did not say yes!”_. What’s a story without some twists and turns! ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/b64-1740023475223-compressed.png) Shraddha and Sekhar faced their first dilemma when Sekhar got an undeniable job offer in Bangalore. _“We had just started to get to know each other better and at that time I couldn’t move from Hyderabad and he had to take up the job in Bangalore. The discussion on this was I guess the first serious conversation we had. However, we agreed to not make a decision immediately, and to keep talking and let nature take its course”_ says Shraddha_._ Sekhar then shifted to Bangalore towards the end of 2019 and a few months later, the pandemic hit. Like everyone else, Sekhar also shifted back home and started working from home. _“Honestly the lockdown was a blessing in some way for us because during that time was when Shraddha and I could connect on a much deeper level,”_ says Sekhar. _“It brought us really close. Yes, we were meeting before, but we’d get only an hour or so together after work. But the lockdown gave me some time to settle with my thoughts and with video calls, we really got to know each other very well”_ recalls Shraddha. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/blog-1740023528088-compressed.webp) Sekhar’s parents knew about Shraddha early on itself and towards the end of the lockdown, Shraddha’s parents were also looped in. _“Since everyone was in the know, my father decided to call Shraddha’s parents over, and in August 2020 the parents met. My father was so direct and literally put us together and asked if we’re ready to get married and I said ‘yes’ and guess what she again did not say a straight yes! But after a bit, she came around and things started happening officially”_ says Sekhar. They got engaged in December 2020 and on January 27th, 2021 the couple got married with a small guest list in Hyderabad. Talking about married life, Shraddha says, _“I am lucky to have found Sekhar! The best thing about him is that it’s no different than being with a best friend. Sekhar is supportive and encouraging as a person. I have grown up in a house where I have seen both my parents share responsibilities and it is great that with Sekhar it has just fallen into place without even it being mentioned and I think that’s what was important to me and it’s pretty cool."_ ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1740023501635-compressed.jpeg) _​ _ Adding to this Sekhar says, _“I have been told that there is a stark difference between dating and marriage but so far so good. I like the fact that she is extremely grounded, passionate about her work and small things make her happy. She is very accepting as a person and I’m not but she is. She talks to my parents every alternate day and nobody asked her to do it and many things like this, which may not seem very significant maybe but these are small things that actually matter. I am calm and composed and she is hyperactive and bubbly and I think opposites attract stands true for us”_. _Aisle wishes this beautiful couple all the happiness in the world!_ --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Krupa & Santosh: One in a Million! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2025-03-14 Tags: stories, aisle, love, online dating URL: https://blog.aisle.co/krupa-and-santosh-one-in-a-million-cm7d31r8b001rstm20j0hj2u2 This story makes you undoubtedly believe in the saying that goes “_There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved”_. Upon being encouraged by a close friend Krupa decided to give online dating another try and downloaded the [**Aisle**](https://aisle.onelink.me/KgP7/lgm43a0b) app for the first time. _“I wasn’t going to let my bad experiences hold me back from finding my one. I joined with the hope of meeting that 1 in a thousand with whom things would just work out,”_ says Krupa. Santosh heard about [**Aisle**](https://aisle.onelink.me/KgP7/lgm43a0b) through a friend and joined looking for someone like-minded. Krupa was his first match and she messaged Santosh on the app after liking his Icebreaker. “_I knew what I wanted and while getting to know each other we realized that we shared the same wavelength and were on the same page when it came to a lot of things and that encouraged us to keep in touch_,” says Krupa. ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1740040300198-compressed.png) The couple took their own time as they wanted to get to know each other for who they truly are and only met a month after they started speaking. It was how Santosh reacted to their first fight that made Krupa realize that he was unquestionably the one for her. His calmness and willingness to understand and to talk it out is what made the fact crystal clear. “_I didn’t expect to meet someone online, and I did not expect something like this to come my way. Santosh is everything I have ever wanted. He’s a gem of a person, down-to-earth and kind-hearted. The fact that it is so rare to come across people like these nowadays only makes me cherish him more. I also like how responsible he is and the transparency of our relationship. We share a strong bond and no matter what, even if we fight we make it a point to communicate and that is the beauty of our_ relationship.”, explains Krupa. ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1740040329437-compressed.jpeg) When Krupa and Santosh finally met, they had their first date over coffee and instantly bonded over their similarities. The couple enjoyed each other’s company and felt comfortable enough to be absolutely transparent with one another. They were certain about their feelings for each other and the future they want together. Krupa and Santosh knew informing their families would have to be the next step. “_I had already told my mom about our relationship and I wanted him to tell his family too but he said that he needed a few months and me being me, I nagged him and kept asking him questions but I gave him the time he needed. The funny thing is Santosh warned me saying ‘After I break the news at home, expect my father to come to your place the next day’ and that’s exactly what happened!_” says Krupa laughingly. ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1740040315513-compressed.jpeg) Marriage has always been on the cards for this couple and upon hearing the news of the relationship, both families urged the couple to tie the knot sooner. Krupa and Santosh got engaged in December 2020 and the got married on 26th April, 2021.  _Aisle wishes this beautiful couple all the happiness in the world!_ --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Prakruthi & Anirudh: Love, Nature & Butterflies! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2025-03-12 Tags: stories, aisle, love, online dating URL: https://blog.aisle.co/prakruthi-and-anirudh-love-nature-and-butterflies-cm7cvi1rs000ustm29hkjri53 “‘_Professor’ is something that caught my attention immediately and of course, her signature selfies. It didn’t hurt the fact that we happen to be from the same community, you know, cause then it’s easier to convince my parents._” Anirudh recalls when he came across Prakruthi’s profile on [**Aisle**](https://aisle.onelink.me/KgP7/lgm43a0b). “_I was more curious about getting to know someone from another profession, especially a Professor_”. Despite being in different cities, Prakruthi’s ‘signature selfies’ and the love for nature that they seemed to share urged Anirudh to send an Invite. Anirudh was certain that he wouldn’t get a reply, however much to his surprise, Prakruthi was quick to reply, and slowly everything started to fall into place. It hardly took them a few hours before they exchanged their numbers and started talking to each other. ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1740027617601-compressed.png) Anirudh works as a software engineer, while Prakruthi is an Associate botany professor and although they reside in Karnataka, they have been in a long-distance relationship ever since they met. While Prakruthi was working in Bangalore, Anirudh would travel from Udupi to meet her. Lockdown did not help their cause either. It was a good 3 months before they would meet face to face. ”_She was working in Bangalore so we decided to meet there. I was nervous before the date. We found each other during quarantine and by the time we decided to do this, I had butterflies in my stomach. All of it seemed weird, almost out of a Youtube series_” Anirudh adds looking back on their first date. ”_I had to travel 350kms to reach Bangalore and we ended up having tea and talking for hours. It all seems surreal now… Totally worth it_” he chuckles. ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1740027628408-compressed.jpeg) Though their interests are poles apart, they found themselves being drawn to each other. “_I like to be active, fit, go for treks, bird watching, and volunteering activities, while she is almost the opposite. She is mostly lazy, likes to sit at home, she draws and paints a bit, and she is brainy, being a medal holder in her Post graduation. We do however connect on our love for nature and how we both appreciate its existence. We even attended webinars, and a workshop together, that was organized by my team_” Anirudh adds smiling. ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1740027643432-compressed.jpeg) Once they were certain about each other, they decided to take it forward to their parents. While Prakruthi’s mother was happy about the relationship, Anirudh’s parents expressed their concern. Though it took time, they slowly warmed to the idea and the couple is looking forward to a bright future together. “_We made our first move on April 29th, 2020. Within this short time, we have been through a lot of personal struggles and we were there for each other every single time. We are both aware of our differences and that helps in understanding things better. We know that we are not perfect individuals but we’d like to think that we make a perfect couple. We openly discuss any problems and make plans for our future. We crack lame jokes and sometimes even cry together. She plans to start her Ph.D., this year and I would be there behind her every step of the way. She’s gone through a lot over the years and I honestly don’t know anybody stronger than her. If everything goes right we’ve planned our wedding for December this year. I’m are eagerly looking forward to our future together_”. _Aisle wishes this adorable couple a lifetime of happiness!_ ​ --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Poornima & Aweinash: A Love That Feels Like Home! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2025-03-04 Tags: stories, aisle, love, online dating URL: https://blog.aisle.co/poornima-and-aweinash-a-love-that-feels-like-home-cm7adbesw005p13xna3yemya9 It is said that when you finally find your person, it’s going to feel like walking into a house and knowing immediately that you are home. Poornima & Aweinash met on [**Aisle**](https://aisle.onelink.me/KgP7/lgm43a0b) amid the pandemic and they knew almost instantly the connection they shared was one of a kind. ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1739876167775-compressed.jpeg) Although meeting in person seemed nearly impossible during the time, the couple had their first date in a car. “_Whilst on our way to the sunset spot I was trying to make Poorni feel comfortable so I offered her to connect her phone to my car’s stereo so she could play music she liked and not have to put up with rock songs from my tracklist. But she was being kind and understanding and tried all her best to keep me comfortable. I really wanted to make our first date a memorable one,_” recalls Aweinash. When they reached, the sky was already dark and most eateries had shut early due to the curfew. Poornima & Aweinash didn’t let that ruin their date and ended up sitting and talking on a staircase near her building. “_Poorni opened up with her past experiences and I was not just listening to what she was saying but was also admiring her beauty; the way her side profile looked as she was sitting right next to me, the way her eyes gleamed in the orange radiant street light, the way her hands were resting crossed on her legs or sometimes her one hand supporting her chin. I didn’t realize it but I was slowly falling for her. Our conversations were as vivid as colors and as deep as the ocean_”. narrates Aweinash. ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1739876185408-compressed.jpeg) The couple had a shared sense of familiarity as if they were long-lost friends and got so caught up in their conversation losing all track of time. Even though Poornima & Aweinash were so different from each other, they shared a mutual respect that made them appreciate each other even more. “_I needed to think our relationship through and make a decision, So after our 3rd date, I had taken some time. I asked him what would happen if I said no and I was quick to notice that I meant so much to him, Aweinash had that fear of losing me and that was when I realized that I had fallen for him too,_” says Poornima. Poornima & Aweinash decided to inform their families about their relationship. Both families were happy upon hearing the news and met soon after. “_We spent a lot of time together, we didn’t get a chance to go out to restaurants so we just went grocery shopping or to the dairy together. I opened up to Aweinash about my past and he accepted me for who I am and saw through who I truly was. He was sure about me right from the very start and that’s what I appreciate about him the most. Even though we are different people we share a mutual respect for our differences and that is what is unique about our relationship_” says Poornima. ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1739876195910-compressed.jpeg) Marriage was always in the cards for Poornima & Aweinash. It was when Poornima had deleted all the dating apps with Aweinash’s help that he realized that this was her saying yes to him. The couple tied the knot in November 2021 and looks forward with joy to the future they share. _Aisle wishes the best of luck to this beautiful couple!_ --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Divya & Bhaskar: Taking the leap! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2025-02-20 Tags: stories, aisle, love, online dating URL: https://blog.aisle.co/divya-and-bhaskar-taking-the-leap-cm7ctipxn000rstm21wo1uslm Divya was looking to settle down and a common friend who met her husband through [**Aisle**](https://aisle.onelink.me/KgP7/lgm43a0b), suggested the app to her and she decided to give it a shot. On another continent, Bhaskar was also looking for something serious on [**Aisle**](https://aisle.onelink.me/KgP7/lgm43a0b) and that’s when he came across Divya’s profile. “Her profile looked like a no-nonsense kind of profile and was pretty straightforward. There was no random info and that helps you judge a person right away. She had also mentioned that she was also looking for something serious, so I sent her an Invite”. “Almost similar things were written on both of our profiles and we had similar interests, so I thought why not!” adds Divya. ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1740026328934-compressed.png) The couple spoke on the phone, a month before they would meet IRL and they couldn’t stop talking. “The whole weekend we kept talking because we had so much in common and in 2 days we figured out that this is what we want and we hadn’t even met!” says Divya. In May 2019, Bhaskar flew down to meet Divya and she went to receive him at the airport. “I believe in astrology and told him that we had to meet at a particular time and he had to plan his flights accordingly and I told him not to wear anything black,” Divya says, laughing. The couple went out for their first date and once they got talking, they realized they aren’t as similar in everything as they thought they were but they enjoyed that part too. “After I met her I was very sure about her. Our understanding of a relationship was similar and no-one tried to over dominate the other. My first impression of Divya still stands true” says Bhaskar. The couple spent 2 days together and decided not to waste any time and within a week, their parents got involved. “We didn’t want to wait too long because he had to go back and to plan a trip again would be a pain and it was all good signs” recalls Divya. Bhaskar was born in Andhra and brought up in Punjab and Divya was born in Orissa and brought up in Andhra and they were also from different castes. This made the parents a little wary at first but told the couple that if they were sure about it, then they can go ahead. Having no doubts in either of their minds, Divya and Bhaskar decided to take the big leap. ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1740026351640-compressed.jpeg) “My parents were very impressed with Bhaskar when they met himself itself because he is really sweet and nice. To date, I think he is a really good guy, good at heart and he charmed my parents almost immediately. He spent a whole day with my parents and me. We went out and had food and went to the Vizag beach. Initially, there was talk about caste, but by the end of the evening my parents were convinced” says Divya. And then the parents met and the dates were fixed. Bhaskar flew down to India a couple of times that year and one of the times he flew down to meet Divya, she planned a surprise for him. “He came to visit me after the dates got fixed and I proposed! He was staying at an apartment in Hyderabad so I asked my friends to go and decorate the place and I got him an outfit and a ring. I even got down on one knee! Funnily enough, he had also bought a ring for me. But I beat him to it! He was so emotional that day. It really was like a fairytale” says Divya, blushing. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/blog-1740026386650-compressed.webp) Bhaskar, a professional swimmer was doing The English Channel swim and Bhaskar asked Divya to accompany him. So they had their pre-wedding shoot there too. In November 2019 the couple tied the knot. Talking about what they most love about each other, Bhaskar says, “She always speaks her mind and I never have to guess what she’s thinking. At the beginning of our relationship every time we spoke, I always couldn’t stop thinking about how I so wanted to marry Divya! We’d be talking about something random and my mind would be going — oh this clicks and this clicks too. I mean how often does it happen!”. Divya on the other hand says, “When talks of marriage started and I was thinking about quitting my job, moving to another country, Bhaskar told me that I should do whatever I want to and that I don’t need to ask his permission ever because it’s my life and career. That blew me away. He is very progressive and there’s no compulsion even today that I have to cook and nobody is the “man of the house”. I felt very assured to get married to him. He even took a stand about how I am with his parents and told them that I’m not the saree-wearing kinda girl and that they shouldn’t expect that of me. All that totally impressed me. I think that’s more important than anything else in life for a girl” says Divya. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/blog-1740026405772-compressed.webp) The couple now reside in Sweden and look forward to the beautiful journey that lies ahead of them. _Aisle wishes this adorable couple all the happiness in the world!_ --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Ann & Kevin: Simplicty of love! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2025-02-20 Tags: stories, aisle, love, online dating URL: https://blog.aisle.co/ann-and-kevin-simplicty-of-love-cm7cteqbf000qstm2m0tzllcq Love is not about the feeling, it is about the person. Confused much? Wait until you read Ann and Kevin’s story which restores our collective faith in the fact that love is actually simple when it is just about the person. Ann heard about [**Aisle**](https://aisle.onelink.me/KgP7/lgm43a0b) from her friends who found love on the app. “_Finding somebody and getting married wasn’t the top priority for me but I thought there is no harm in meeting someone. A lot of people told me that Aisle is not like the usual dating apps so I downloaded it. Although my parents were keen on it, I knew the person did not necessarily have to be from Kerala but I definitely had a slight bias towards people from Coimbatore because I spent most of my life there. When I came across Kevin’s profile, I noticed that he was a Malayali from Coimbatore and there was a picture of him playing with a dog. I was pleasantly surprised as to how he ticked not just mine but my parents boxes as well._” says Ann. ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1740024153830-compressed.png) Ann’s expectations were very simple and Kevin’s profile attracted her attention for the same reason. “_His was a simple profile and did not boast about anything- not even the fact that he went to IIM. I liked that so I sent him an Invite and started the conversation. Kevin wasn’t looking for something serious at that time so technically we were on two different planets in terms of intentions. We started texting but only once in a while which I was comfortable with because I don’t like texting a lot._” adds Ann. As days passed, Kevin and Ann realized that they had a lot of things in common like the fact that they were both single children, they grew up in Coimbatore and even discovered a few mutual friends. After a month, the conversations moved from the app to Instagram and both of them knew it was time to take things offline. “_We met at a cafe for our first date. Even though it was our first meeting we spoke throughout and it was a light-hearted evening. I did not want to base everything on one meeting so we met a couple more times after that._” A month later the lockdown was announced and like a lot of couples around the globe Ann & Kevin’s relationship entered the long-distance phase. “_We were both looking for a long-term relationship so there was never any uncertainty. I feel like the distance actually helped us because I am somebody who requires my space and doesn’t like to be nagged. Kevin also has a hectic work schedule and would call when he could make time. There was a lot of comfort even as we gave each other time and space. If we ever had any issues, Kevin being the patient person that he is would make sure we had long conversations until things were sorted._” recalls Ann. ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1740024166895-compressed.jpeg) When asked if there was a moment or incident where she realized Kevin was ‘the one’, Ann says “_I am not sure if there was a particular moment of enlightenment. I think it was the fact that he did not have any problems with the way I was and that we could talk about anything under the sun be it personal or professional. I am not the type of person to talk about myself and my inhibitions a lot but Kevin believes that if you want a relationship to work you have to talk about everything even your smallest fears. We aren’t the usual lovey-dovey couple but when I thought about all of this, I knew this is somebody I can think of being with forever.”_ ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1740024177331-compressed.jpeg) _​ _ The couple got engaged on 14th February 2021 but the reason for choosing this date wasn’t Valentine’s Day. “_My grandparents got married on 14th February and that is why we chose the date for our engagement. It was only by the end of the day that we realized it was also Valentine’s Day and wished each other casually._” quips Ann. The much-in-love couple tied the knot on 24th April 2021. “_While it is difficult for me to talk about my insecurities with anyone, the comfort factor with Kevin was so reassuring that these difficult conversations took place very organically. Even though I am the exact opposite of the person that he imagined he would marry, he was able to put his fears to rest and make our relationship work_” says Ann. _Aisle wishes this adorable couple a lifetime of happiness and joy!_ --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Shreya & Ratnesh: Orchids and a Kiss! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2025-02-20 Tags: stories, aisle, love, online dating URL: https://blog.aisle.co/shreya-and-ratnesh-orchids-and-a-kiss-cm7ct7xxu000pstm2vrnucjkx It was destiny that brought this couple together. Shreya and Ratnesh found each other on Aisle last October when they were almost going to uninstall it and settle for an arranged marriage. “I accepted his Invite because he looked innocent and cute in his pictures. He had mentioned in his profile that he loves travelling, cooking and is a foodie, just like me. He is a Maharashtrian, too. So, I thought why not try it? I felt this was my last chance.” says Shreya. What drew Ratnesh to her was her simplicity, good personality, and polite nature. When asked what encouraged her to keep in touch with him, she said that it was the way he talked to her. “He makes me laugh, respects my opinion, and listens to what I have to say. He supports me always and loves me for who I am. He is very caring,” she says fondly. ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1740023976550-compressed.png) “The best part was that he couldn’t see my pictures. It was completely blank. He texted me after reading my bio, and then we switched to Instagram and WhatsApp. After six days, we planned our first date. He told me I could wear whatever I was comfortable with. That’s when he checked my Instagram pictures and complimented me on how beautiful I looked. He told me he was seeing me for the first time!” she adds, laughing. Ratnesh is crazy about bikes. However, she is afraid of it because of an unfortunate incident during her childhood. But guess what? On their first date, he picked her up on his bike near her college! She was feeling shy, but he made her comfortable. They went to Juhu beach where he gave her a chocolate and held hands. Later, they went for dinner and had fun talking and laughing. He then planted a kiss on her forehead and confessed his love for her with her favourite flower, orchids, and a novel by a particular author she loves! She had read all his books except this and was struggling to find it, but he remembered! She felt it was the cutest and sweetest gesture. After dropping her home safely and texting for hours, they both realized that they had found their life partner. ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1740023988425-compressed.jpeg) “What I love the most about our relationship is that we are both funny and romantic. Ratnesh also joins in on my mischief. He understands everything about me so we don’t fight much, but when we do, he will come all the way to my building and apologize. He is a good cook and we have fun cooking together. I wear his tee-shirt without asking him and make it loose so it won’t fit him anymore. So, I’ll get to keep it!” she chuckles. They met each other’s parents in the first week of November during Diwali, and it all went well, although she was a little nervous at first. Her parents liked him because he was hardworking, caring and understanding. On the evening of 26th December, a day after her birthday, she made him go out with his friend to get pizza. In the meantime, with the help of her friend, she decorated her house with fairy lights, and with rose petals, she formed the sentence “Will you marry me?” on a white cloth. When he returned, they blindfolded him. Once they took off the blinds, she got down on one knee and proposed to him. He was soo surprised and emotional that he couldn’t decide which hand to give her. He then took out the ring from his bag and proposed to her too! Later, they danced and partied with their friends. They will get engaged this year. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/blog-1740024044313-compressed.webp) “What makes us different from each other is that I’m punctual, unlike him. However, I was late on my first date because I couldn’t decide what to wear. Since he is always late, we started a point system where whoever gets more points at the end of the month for being late, should gift the other person something.” she says laughing. “She gets super hyper about everything while I am calm,” adds Ratnesh. _Congratulations to this beautiful couple. Aisle wishes them a lifetime filled with love and joy!_ --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Shubhra & Gautam: Little Things & Big Steps Towards Love! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2025-02-18 Tags: stories, aisle, love, online dating URL: https://blog.aisle.co/shubhra-and-gautam-little-things-and-big-steps-towards-love-cm7acqc5y005o13xnbpkefbe0 Love is not always about grand romantic gestures and sweeping declarations; sometimes, it’s about small acts of love and kindness. For Shubhra and Gautam, it was the little things that made a big difference. ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1739875575344-compressed.jpeg) Shubhra was interested in meeting someone from a cultural background similar to her own. On [Aisle](https://aisle.onelink.me/KgP7/lgm43a0b), she instantly gravitated towards Preferences, a feature that allowed her to find exactly who she wanted. That person turned out to be Gautam. “_He was so genuine and not at all over-the-top. He liked to travel, he was a dog lover — and best of all, he was a non-smoker. That was so important to me!_” Gautam claims he was pretty impressed when he first saw Shubhra’s profile too. “_Just the way she described herself… I was so intrigued. She’s an excellent dancer and singer. It’s safe to say I was ‘clean-bowled’ when I first saw the videos of her performances._” The couple soon began talking over the phone. “_He was in Jaipur and I was in Dehradun,_” said Shubhra. “_Gautam was keen to meet, but I kept refusing because I had torn a ligament and didn’t want to limp around on our first date!”_ ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1739875601766-compressed.jpeg) As fate would have it, the two instantly connected over their love of hiking, F.R.I.E.N.D.S, and cheeky banter. “_I remember in December one day he said to me — It would be far easier for him to drive down to Dehradun than to go and find a Christmas tree in Jaipur! I then challenged him to come and meet me. The next morning, I got a call that he was driving to Dehradun!_” “_When we first met, we hugged each other for a minute or two like we had known each other forever. It was so comfortable. I’ve never felt so relaxed,_” reminisces Gautam. Subtle gestures of love for each other brought the couple closer, Shubhra says. “_When we would walk together, Gautam would gently move me to the side away from traffic. When he would get up for a glass of water, he’d bring a glass for me too. It might not seem like much, but these small things really create security in a relationship._” “_When we finally decided to tell our parents, he set up a secret camera to record his parents’ reaction. They were ecstatic! As for my parents, I told them very simply, ‘I’m bringing another son for you.’ The two families got along like long-lost friends”,_ according to Gautam. “_Her parents were so warm and welcoming. I knew that our families would gel very well together._” ![undefined](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1739875619811-compressed.jpeg) Shubhra recounts their whirlwind romance: “_It was the shortest courtship I’ve ever had, but things work out when they are meant to. We belonged with each other; the timeline was irrelevant._” _“It was pretty cool that we ended up together, I’m so thankful she liked me back!”_ says Gautam, _“Shubhra is the most emotionally intelligent person I’ve met in a long time.”_ The couple is now married in Sydney and have been living their lives together. _“Our advice? When you’re out to look for a partner, go with an open mind and set aside your judgements. You should be careful, of course; at the same time, it’s important to give something new a chance. If it’s meant to be, everything will fall in place.”_ _Thanks for the little nuggets of wisdom, Shubhra and Gautam — we hope they’ll lead to something big for our readers! Wishing you all the happiness in the world for your life together!_ --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Ruchita & Tejas – How Clarity, Not Chemistry, Built Their Love Author: Team Aisle Published: 2025-02-14 Tags: stories, aisle, love, online dating URL: https://blog.aisle.co/ruchita-and-tejas-how-clarity-not-chemistry-built-their-love-cm74inrcu0095r1l288xf6qkh Some love stories start with butterflies, stolen glances, and late-night texts. Ruchita and Tejas' story? It started with brutal honesty and a blue shirt. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/2-1739341118466-compressed.png) When Ruchita first matched with Tejas on [**Aisle**](https://aisle.onelink.me/KgP7/lgm43a0b), he didn’t waste time with the usual “Hey, how’s it going?” His first message was a disclaimer - _'If you’re not looking for something serious, please don’t bother responding.'_ Direct, maybe even a little audacious, but Ruchita didn’t mind. In fact, she liked it. She wasn’t here for endless small talk either. After all, she did not install Aisle for situationships, or a casual relationship. Her aim was clear, she wanted to find a love that would lead to spending the rest of their lives together. A one-hour coffee date wasn’t going to cut it. Ruchita knew that to truly understand someone, she needed more time. So when they planned their first meeting, she made sure they spent a few hours together. They walked along Carter Road, a place Tejas often visited, and spoke about everything - childhood memories, past relationships, ambitions, and family values. There were no pretenses, no attempts to impress - just two people being their real, unfiltered selves. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/blog-thumbnail-1-1739341170123-compressed.png) On their way back, a song played in the car - '_O Saathi Re'_ from _Omkara_. Maybe it was the lyrics, maybe it was the moment, but something in Ruchita shifted. The constant overthinking, the hesitation, the what-ifs - they all fell silent. She leaned her head on his shoulder and just _felt_. And that was it. No grand confession, no hesitation. Just five words that changed everything - _"I love you, I’m in."_ For Tejas, this was exactly why he had been upfront from the start. He wasn’t looking to waste time, not his and definitely not someone else’s. He had seen too many people treat dating like a game of convenience - ghosting, breadcrumbing, swiping endlessly without any real intention. He wanted something _solid_, and in Ruchita, he found it. What made it even better? While most people meticulously scan through pictures, analyse captions, and dissect bios before deciding to meet someone, Ruchita took a different approach. She wasn’t fixated on staged photos or curated aesthetics. Instead, it was Tejas’ words that stood out - his clarity, his mindset, and the way he articulated exactly what he was looking for. She did glance at his profile, but it wasn’t a picture that convinced her - it was the substance in his prompts, the sincerity in his intent. That mattered more than anything else. While attraction and chemistry sparked their connection, it was shared values that solidified their bond. Family was everything to Ruchita. She wasn’t just looking for a husband - she wanted a home. She had been clear from the beginning: _"I want a family who stays together. I don’t want a husband who lives alone in the city. I want in-laws who will be like parents to me."_ And Tejas understood. Before introducing her to his family, he made sure to meet hers first. It had to be done the right way, with respect and sincerity. This shows that their relationship was never about grand declarations but about small, intentional actions that spoke volumes. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1-1739341204939-compressed.png) On December 21, 2023, everything fell into place - the dates were set, and their forever officially began. Their engagement was marked for April 14, 2024, and by November 17, 2024, they finally said _forever_.  _Now, Ruchita’s parents adore Tejas, and in his family, she feels like a free-spirited child. No over-the-top proposals, no unnecessary drama - just two people who saw each other for who they were and chose to stay. Because sometimes, love isn’t about chasing sparks. It’s about finding someone who makes you feel like coming home._ --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Nadia & Girish: A Love that Feels Like Resting Author: Team Aisle Published: 2025-01-08 Tags: stories, aisle, love, online dating URL: https://blog.aisle.co/nadia-and-girish-a-love-that-feels-like-resting-cm5nptpni004011gp1whuklrx When you've spent years living on high alert, constantly in a 'fight or flight' mode, the idea of a love that's calm, steady, and restful can feel almost foreign. For Nadia, this is the kind of love she desperately needed, but wasn’t sure she could ever have. Her first experience with love wasn’t easy; it felt more like survival than connection. After navigating the chaos and heartbreak of her past, she made a promise to herself: she'd rather live alone than settle for anything less than the peace she longed for. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/b64-1737442379490-compressed.png) In 2022, after years of learning to navigate the world alone, Nadia saw an ad on Instagram that caught her attention. _'Divorced, not damaged.'_ The idea of finding love again, despite everything she’d been through, felt like a sign. She decided to take the plunge and [joined Aisle.](https://aisle.onelink.me/KgP7/lgm43a0b)​ Nadia didn’t want a whirlwind romance or a fleeting attraction. She had learned the hard way that love needed to align with her priorities. So, when she set up her profile, she didn’t just filter for location or interests - she made it clear that she needed someone whose values and priorities aligned with hers. She was looking for someone who could walk beside her, who would fit into the quiet life she’d carefully built. It was in this way that she came across Girish. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/3-1737442402624-compressed.png) Their match wasn’t love at first sight, but it felt like a gentle nudge from fate. He lived on the very edge of the location radius she’d set. As they began to chat, something about him felt different. They quickly realised they shared a love for quirky TV shows, ones that most people in their circles didn’t understand. Curious, Nadia agreed to meet him in person. Their first date was nice, but not life-changing, just yet. Nadia didn’t feel the kind of instant chemistry she had imagined from a perfect match. “He was clean-shaven,” she laughed later, admitting that wasn’t exactly her type. But as the evening went on, she found herself intrigued. The conversation was natural, and they talked about everything from their favourite shows to their ideas on life and relationships. It wasn’t love at first sight, but it was something more subtle: a connection that felt like it could grow into something real. A week later, they met again. This time, something had changed. Girish had grown out a salt-and-pepper beard, and suddenly, Nadia felt a spark. “I don’t know what it was about the beard,” she smiled, “but I liked him more that day. That was the moment I knew I wanted to see where this could go.” ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1-1737442658621-compressed.png) But more than his appearance, it was his kindness that spoke to her. After everything she had been through, Nadia’s focus was clear: her son always came first. Anyone she considered as a partner had to understand that her son was always her first priority. No questions. And that’s where Girish showed her, without even saying a word, that he was different. Their first meeting with her son wasn’t forced or awkward. It was easy. Casual. Girish didn’t try too hard, didn’t try to be something he wasn’t. He just fit. “I loved how he knows that my son is my first priority,” Nadia shared, her voice soft with affection. “Even though Girish would be my partner, that would never change. He understood that, and that made all the difference.” With each passing day, Nadia began to trust Girish more. Their relationship wasn’t dramatic or filled with grand gestures. It was steady, like a quiet river running through their lives, cutting through the noise and finding its own way. “I feel like I’m resting,” she said once, reflecting on how she felt with him. “After everything I had been through, it felt like finally being able to breathe again after holding my breath for so long. With Girish, I don’t have to fight anymore. I can just be.” ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/blog-thumbnail-1737539314974-compressed.png) “We have our separate lives—plans, friends, activities. But when we come home, it’s like our worlds shine brighter together,” Nadia said, smiling at Girish, who stood beside her, quietly supporting her words. By the end of 2025, Nadia and Girish are planning to marry. Theirs is the kind of love that reminds you that even after life’s most challenging chapters, there is always room for a new story to begin. _We wish Nadia and Girish a life of quiet mornings, laughter-filled evenings, and a love that always feels like coming home._ --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Abin & Shilpa: The One Who Fulfils All Your Bollywood Dreams Author: Team Aisle Published: 2024-11-28 Tags: stories, aisle, love, online dating URL: https://blog.aisle.co/abin-and-shilpa-the-one-who-fulfils-all-your-bollywood-dreams-cm413o3uy00k3jdc7yhmkpmo7 Abin and Shilpa's story is a true testament of the 'Invisible string theory.' It states that two people who are destined to be together, would meet at the right time, no matter how much distance is there between them or no matter how many times they have crossed paths without realising. It is only when the timing is 'right' is when the two people would connect and click - like two puzzle pieces coming together, completing the image. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/3-1732786921021-compressed.png) And this is exactly what happened with Abin and Shilpa. Even though they met on Aisle, it turns out all of their friends and families have known each other forever, ad their cousins are married to each other! "How could we have not run into each other for so many years?" Abin laughs. It's funny sometimes how fate has a role to play in everything we do. While, for Abin, this was a love at first sight encounter, Shilpa was a little more skeptical in taking things forward. Afterall, Abin wasn't her "usual type" in guys that she goes for. And she was very honest with him about this, having discussions and coming clean about things is how Shilpa lives life. "It's better to always have everything laid out in the open, that way, no one gets hurt and you can reach decisions faster, nahi?" While Shilpa may not have been initially sure about him, Abin was determined to show her that he was the one. And he did it in the most grand and thoughtful way imaginable. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1-1732786996033-compressed.png) Abin spent months planning the ultimate proposal. Knowing how much Shilpa loved Bollywood and had always dreamed of a proposal that would match the romance of the silver screen, he pulled out all the stops. He even went so far as to write a song for her. But that wasn’t all. Then came the _pièce de résistance_: he booked an entire movie theatre for the proposal, invited their closest friends and family to be part of the big moment, and created an unforgettable experience of Shilpa. On her birthday, as the lights dimmed and the opening chords of the song filled the air, Abin got down on one knee and asked Shilpa to be his forever. Of course, she said yes! After nailing a proposal that can bring even the most romantic movies to their knees, the couple is now all set to get married! For Abin and Shilpa, the invisible string is real, and it’s tying them together for a lifetime. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/2-1732786966958-compressed.png) _As they prepare to say "I do," Aisle sends them all the love and best wishes for a life as magical as their story—because for them, the journey is just beginning._ --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Dhruv & Himanshi: Beyond Trials & Triumphs Author: Team Aisle Published: 2024-11-19 Tags: stories, aisle, love, online dating URL: https://blog.aisle.co/dhruv-and-himanshi-beyond-trials-and-triumphs-cm3nxm74i005avnqrn4riy0br Delhi is often called the _"City of Love"_ — **_Dilwalon ki Dilli_** — a place where emotions run high and the heartbeat of romance pulses through the streets. Yet, when we are used to having everything just a click away and instant gratification becomes the norm, finding a genuine, lasting connection can be more challenging than it seems. For Dhruv, an old-school romantic, navigating this fast-paced world felt like a never-ending quest for something deeper. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/2-1731989438167-compressed.png) He longed for companionship - someone to be his anchor in the world that is ever-changing. Fleeting-moments of romance came easy, but he longed to make a living with someone who shared his view on companionship, trust, and love. This search led him to Aisle, "I thought that the way Aisle talks about love matches my needs." And so, the quest began. Himanshi was one of the first people Dhruv matched with, and their conversations felt so natural, he felt like he had known her forever. The cherry on top? They both lived in Delhi! After exchanging numbers and talking on the phone, they finally decided to meet at one of the most famous date spots in Delhi - **Ama Café.** The hours they spent together felt like minutes, and before their first date was even over, they had already planned the next one! Talk about being excited. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/3-1731989476158-compressed.png) Himanshi recalls, "It felt so natural, like talking to a long-lost college friend. Maybe it's because we come from similar backgrounds, but he just _gets_ me. We've seen the same things, and I didn't have to explain myself. We were already on the same page." For Dhruv and Himanshi, there wasn’t the usual thrill of discovery that comes with getting to know someone new. Instead, they found something far deeper - the sense of comfort they were craving for, in their lives. From late-night drives to spoiling each other with sweet gifts, their relationship progressed to the stage of meeting the parents. However, what they had hoped would be a successful conversation didn’t go as planned. The initial meeting ended in heartbreak, but they didn’t lose hope. Believing in the strength of their relationship, they tried again with their families after six months, and this time, they convinced them of their love. Finally, their families gave their blessing for the marriage. The twist to the traditional ways? The bride arranged a surprise proposal for the groom! The garden lit up with fairy lights, their favourite food was on the table, and Himanshi gave a beautiful speech dedicated to their journey together. She went down on one knee, and he said yes! ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/snapchat-151500892-1731989496633-compressed.jpg) Now, the couple is all set to get married in the same month they started dating, exactly 3 years later. Dhruv reflects on the nature of their relationship. "Marriage, to me, isn’t about problems disappearing. It’s about having someone who knows me, who understands how to navigate life’s ups and downs with me. Challenges will be there, but as long as we’re together, we’re confident we’ll make it work." _As they embark on this next chapter, we wish Dhruv and Himanshi all the happiness in the world. And while we hope their journey ahead is smooth sailing, we’re sure there will be plenty of surprises along the way — and that’s what makes it all the more exciting._ --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Soumik & Piali: When love finds you, let it in Author: Darshita Published: 2024-10-24 Tags: stories, aisle, love, online dating URL: https://blog.aisle.co/soumik-and-piali-when-love-finds-you-let-it-in-cm2mst7vb000fdtfya5rs40fm ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/soumik1-1729744567829-compressed.jpg) Love, for some, blossoms without effort. For others, love is a road marked by heartbreak, before true happiness comes along. And when you meet someone who eases all that pain just as you’re ready to give up, that’s when love becomes the greatest healer. That's exactly what happened with Soumik and Piali. They had nearly given up on love when they met on Aisle and became each other’s hope for a happier future. Piali understood Soumik’s pain, and in turn, Soumik helped her rediscover the thrill of romance. "I was hesitant at first, because of the heartbreaks I had been through already," Piali says. "But with every message from Soumik, it felt like teenage love all over again... full of butterflies, late-night chats, and a promise of something deeper." ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/soumik2-1729744695062-compressed.jpg) Soumik's thoughtfulness helped break down Piali’s defences. Roses waiting on her desk before work, chocolates delivered just when she craved them, and long drives in the rain—it was the kind of love she had only dreamed of. They took the road slowly and carefully, enjoying every step with each other. But love, as they learned, isn’t always smooth. During their first trip to Mandarmani, Piali woke up with a Bell’s Palsy attack, her face partially paralysed. Fearing she’d hold him back, she begged Soumik to walk away and find happiness elsewhere. Soumik’s love was unwavering. "When you love someone with all the pureness of your heart, you don't let something as shallow as appearance get in the way. Looks fade with time, but the true goodness of a person only shines brighter." Soumik stayed by her side, helping with everything from medications to physiotherapy, becoming close to her parents in the process. Together, they faced the challenges head-on. Talking about the early days of the medical condition, both Soumik and Piali believe that they could only emerge from it because of the strength of their love. "When you are sure about your feelings for someone, when you love them much more than the societal rules - that's when you truly understand the meaning of love. You learn to be present for them, and face the challenges together. No matter what the world says, your love comes out stronger!" Piali healed with Soumik's support and the foundations of their relationship grew more resilient. They were so sure of each other that nothing else in the world mattered. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/soumik3-1729744734181-compressed.jpg) Soumik proposed to Piali on Valentine's Day 2024; by April 20, they were contently married. Talking about life after marriage, Soumik and Piali agree that just because they have 'tied the knot', it doesn't mean that life's challenges won't test them. But it is crucial to remember _why_ they chose to be together in the first place. "If the foundation is strong, then the building will keep growing taller and taller for years to come!" _We hope so too, Soumik and Piali! Aisle wishes you a lifetime of happiness and love that conquers every obstacle._ --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Rakshitha & Rajesh: when friendship and love go hand-in-hand Author: Team Aisle Published: 2024-09-17 Tags: stories, aisle, love, online dating URL: https://blog.aisle.co/rakshitha-and-rajesh-when-friendship-and-love-go-hand-in-hand-cm15wzx300000ehh5p9ql2psf ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/blog4-1726547825017-compressed.jpg) The year is 2020. For Rakshitha, navigating through the lonely months of the pandemic are particularly challenging. She craves genuine connection with a special someone, but struggles to find trust on conventional dating apps.  During the same time, Rajesh was urged by his friend to download Aisle. Little did he know that this would lead him to find the love of his life. Cut to 2023, when a chance encounter with Aisle on Facebook helped Rakshitha and Rajesh find each other! Rajesh talks about their first few dates fondly. “I felt like it was love at first sight, seeing her profile... but I wanted to get to know her better.” Even though Rakshitha was reserved at first, Rajesh eventually won her trust. And their journey began with a simple yet profound truth from a famous SRK movie: _Pyaar Dosti Hai. Love is friendship._ ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/blog3-1726547851686-compressed.jpg) Texting on Aisle turned into phone calls, which then turned into dates. Both of them were taking things slow, carefully building each aspect of their relationship. Rakshitha made sure to give Rajesh a glimpse of her personality from the very beginning. “I gave him one digit of my phone number every day, for 10 days. It was to see how well he would handle my quirks!” And handle them he did. With a heart full of patience and admiration for Rakshitha! ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/blog6-1726548928524-compressed.jpg) "I think this is what made me feel emotionally safe," Rakshitha says. "We both have had our fair share of trust issues and heartbreaks in life. We wanted someone who would be able to understand the struggles of our hearts, someone who knew how to tend to it fondly. And in each other, I think we found that person, that comfort. We understood each other's pain in the simplest of ways, but that's what matters. To stay, to make an effort and to give you the courage needed to take a step forward."  Rakshitha believed that having a kind partner makes it easier to navigate life together. For her, that person was Rajesh, who understood her like no other. Through his courage, she felt the confidence to move things along and introduce him to her parents. They built a relationship that could sustain their journey into the unknown, one step at a time. And the journey led to something they were both excited about - a future together! ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/blog2-1726548945416-compressed.jpg) _Rakshitha and Rajesh tied the knot on 19th May 2024, and Aisle wishes them a lifetime of love and happiness together - may they always be each other’s best friends!_ --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Jessmin & Justin: A love that grew with time. Author: Team Aisle Published: 2023-09-19 Tags: online-dating, stories, aisle, love URL: https://blog.aisle.co/null ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/4-1695121084127-compressed.jpeg) Some believe that it’s easier to fall in love than to nurture a relationship. Jessmin and Justin's story proves that it's easy to do both when you take time to slow date. The couple met on Aisle, unaware that it was the start of something beautiful. "I was the one who sent her an invite. Her profile seemed genuine. I don’t know, there was something about her picture. I wanted to talk to her, get to know her," Justin recalls. And while Jessmin gladly accepted his invite, she knew in her heart that she was looking for something long term. "It took me a while to be open to online dating and I wanted to be careful. In fact, we both wanted to take it slow," Jessmin added. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/whatsapp-image-2023-09-07-at-12-1695121168311-compressed.jpeg) That led to them enjoying a long courtship which started with them meeting for the first time in Jessmin’s house - a day which was symbolic of their loving bond. Jessmin explains, “Justin had come home to meet me. My mother only knew of him as a mutual friend. I remember vividly, my mom had given us some puzzles to solve while she was cooking. I confess, we were unsuccessful in working out that puzzle at that time but metaphorically speaking, the puzzle of our life kind of came together.” ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/8-1695121214815-compressed.jpeg) Over time, their love and fondness only deepened and the two decided to take their relationship to the next level. The only twist: Justin’s parents were not aware of their relationship as yet. "It took me a while to disclose our relationship to my parents. That's not because I wasn’t sure about it, we just didn't want to rush into marriage due to any pressure," Justin added. But all’s well that ends well because once their parents met, it was all good.  ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1-1695121242081-compressed.jpeg) The couple got married two years later. They are not afraid to reinvent and rediscover their relationship every now and then. They even confess to having disagreements, but always respecting each other’s opinions. Perhaps, this could be the best advice for couples looking for a long-term relationship. Justin explains, "Communication is very important. I think you need to talk things out with your partner. You can’t always expect them to understand what you need. Even if there is a fight or a disagreement, there will be a resolution at the end if things are spoken and are clear." Jessmin agrees, "Our love grew stronger with time. I think we might have just scratched the surface. There’s a lot more to learn and discover about each other." Such a beautiful thought! We wish you a lifetime of love and togetherness, Jessmin and Justin! --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Priyanka & Joy: A love story with the best birthday surprise! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2023-08-30 Tags: online-dating, stories, aisle, love URL: https://blog.aisle.co/null ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695095573166-compressed.jpeg) They say you can manifest love; Priyanka and Joy sure did when they downloaded Aisle. “It was a conscious decision. I was of marriageable age and wanted to settle down within that time frame,” adds Priyanka. Joy agrees, “I had been on dating apps before but this time, I knew I wanted something permanent.” The universe was on their side and both matched instantly, thanks to similar tastes and preferences. Joy recounts, “She had an attractive profile picture and that urged me to send her an Invite.” They both got talking on the app. Priyanka was cautious and wanted to be sure before they exchanged numbers. It was only a month later that she finally gave in and shared her number with Joy. Their casual chats soon graduated to unending phone calls and the two decided to meet in-person. Joy adds, “I knew that she was the one and wanted to pop the question right away. I didn’t want to wait, because she was perfect for me.” Perhaps that was also the reason why Joy proposed to her on her birthday. Priyanka recalls, “It was the best birthday surprise because I knew I was falling for him ever since I first spoke to him. I had already told my family about him, so it was perfect timing.” ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695095610495-compressed.jpeg) Since the family was in the loop, wedding preparations started soon after they went on their first date. Priyanka adds, “It was so much fun. We couldn’t stop talking and kept ordering food. He made me laugh and was so honest and sincere about his life.” Joy adds, “We had a lot of fun in general. We believe in the same things. She is a very calming influence in my life. I think she has made me a better person.” ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695095628491-compressed.jpeg) Everything just magically fell into place and the duo got married soon after. Three years later, they still finish each other’s sentences and agree to disagree. Priyanka elaborates, “We have different personalities, but our core values are the same. I love to dance, while he has two left feet! In a way, we balance each other out.” Their dating advice for anyone looking for a partner is based on loyalty and commitment. “Trust the timing,” Joy says, “be honest and loyal. You cannot fake it with your partner.” We agree and wish the happy couple lots of love, laughter and light! ![](https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=c4c02c0dc267) * * * [Priyanka & Joy: A love story with the best birthday surprise!](https://medium.com/aisle-network/priyanka-joy-a-love-story-with-the-best-birthday-surprise-c4c02c0dc267) was originally published in [Aisle](https://medium.com/aisle-network) on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story. --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Nayana & Chandrakanth: A love story that almost didn’t happen. Author: Team Aisle Published: 2023-07-21 Tags: online-dating, stories, aisle, love URL: https://blog.aisle.co/null ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695095684713-compressed.jpeg) They came, they saw, and they got married! Only that it wouldn’t have been so straightforward, if one of them would have given up on love. Nayana and Chandrakanth’s story is a delightful happenstance that changed their lives forever. It was a romance that was waiting to happen. Nayana had downloaded Aisle quite by chance and as luck would have it, came across Chandrakanth’s profile just before she was about to uninstall the app. “I remember, he had sent me an invite. I had received many requests and honestly was a bit scared to be on a dating app because I worked as a lecturer and didn’t want my students to see me on it. But there was something about his profile that stood out from all the others; it seemed interesting,” she recalls. The two bonded instantly from the get-go. It only took them a few conversations to finally meet for their first-ever date at a cafe. But there was one glitch — Nayana was 30 minutes late. “I got busy at work. I was almost half an hour late for our first date. Not a great first impression, but he welcomed me with a big smile,” she recounts. Chandrakanth didn’t mind the waiting too. He had met a girl before he matched with Nayana, but didn’t find a common connection with her. With Nayana, the conversation flowed naturally. Chandrakanth adds, “We had the same taste in food, our ideologies matched and we both were _kaapi_ lovers. I knew from that meeting itself that I had found the one. Honestly, I didn’t mind waiting for her.” ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695095698952-compressed.jpeg) Over time, their love and fondness only deepened and the two decided to take their relationship to the next level. Meeting the parents too went smoothly. Chandrakanth agrees. “Aisle gave us an option of filters, which was very helpful. We had a similar family background which made it even easier to disclose our relationship to our parents.” Soon after, with the blessings of their parents, the couple got engaged and had a wedding the following year. Two years of marriage and a baby later, the lovebirds believe that their love story was destiny coupled with a bit of luck. “People still wonder if we met on a dating app! I think it was all destiny, the way I installed the app and then met the perfect partner — all thanks to Aisle,” Nayana says. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695095712101-compressed.jpeg) Their dating advice for anyone looking for a partner is guided by intention and mutual respect. Chandrakanth adds, “Apart from knowing what you want, it is also okay to say no. Mutual respect is very important in a relationship. A person who knows what they want will always find the right partner.” We second that and wish you both a lifetime of happiness, Nayana and Chandrakanth! ![](https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=e644cd9500d2) * * * [Nayana & Chandrakanth: A love story that almost didn’t happen.](https://medium.com/aisle-network/nayana-chandrakanth-a-love-story-that-almost-didnt-happen-e644cd9500d2) was originally published in [Aisle](https://medium.com/aisle-network) on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story. --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Udita & Aashay: Love in the time of a pandemic! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2023-06-21 Tags: online-dating, stories, aisle, love URL: https://blog.aisle.co/null ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695095748913-compressed.jpeg) In 2020, while the world was reeling under a lockdown, love came knocking at Udita and Aashay’s doors. Udita had been on dating apps for a while, but there were always compatibility issues. “I had met some guys, but quickly realised that they weren’t meant for me,” she recounts. With Aashay, it was an instant connection. “I came across Aashay’s profile on Aisle and it seemed interesting. Plus, he was quite handsome too,” laughs Udita. From Udita reciprocating to Aashay’s icebreaker message to them becoming friends, things flowed smoothly. Their friendly banter soon graduated into something more beautiful. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695095762120-compressed.jpeg) The two bonded over their love for cats, food and life. Although their love blossomed over text messages and Udita preferred to continue this way, Aashay couldn’t wait to see her. “I insisted on a video call because we couldn’t meet in person, but Udita was hesitant. I wanted to meet her, see her… look at her dimples when she smiled,” he added. Meeting in person at a cafe or restaurant was impossible because of the pandemic, so Udita and Aashay found the next best way to finally meet — in Aashay’s car, that too with masks on! Luckily, Covid restrictions were relaxed soon after. That’s when Udita and Aashay decided to have their first official date outside the confines of the car. Aashay adds, “Our first date was in McDonald’s and even though we would have liked to have it someplace else, it was cute. Restaurants were working in limited capacities. There wasn’t any overcrowding. The neighbouring tables were placed far apart, it felt safe and weirdly, romantic.” Over time, as they started meeting more regularly, their love and fondness only deepened. They knew they had found something special and even informed their parents about their relationship. Udita recalls, “My parents were a bit hesitant, but once they met Aashay, they loved him. My mother speaks to him more than me.” Aashay’s parents too adored Udita and welcomed her into the family with open arms. Despite having opposite personalities, they respect their differing opinions, try out new things together and support each other during tough times. Aashay explains, “Udita is there for me whenever I get anxious. She always insists on talking it out. She has helped me come out of some really dark situations. She is a foodie and introduced me to her foodie gang too.” ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695095778238-compressed.jpeg) The duo are all set to tie the knot next year and are excited about their future together. Their story is a testament to the fact that love can happen on a dating app — and it can certainly survive a lockdown. Their dating advice for anyone looking for a partner is practical at best: “Just don’t look for perfection in your partner. There’s nothing like it,” Aashay says. Udita adds, “You have to work it out together.” Aisle wishes this beautiful couple a lifetime of love, laughter and light! ![](https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=e9cb242ec28f) * * * [Udita & Aashay: Love in the time of a pandemic!](https://medium.com/aisle-network/udita-aashay-love-in-the-time-of-a-pandemic-e9cb242ec28f) was originally published in [Aisle](https://medium.com/aisle-network) on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story. --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Sonam & Nitin: A misunderstanding that changed their life! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2023-05-29 Tags: online-dating, stories, aisle, love URL: https://blog.aisle.co/null ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695095820238-compressed.jpeg) “I always knew that I didn’t want an arranged marriage. I wanted to find someone who was compatible with me. Deep down, in my heart, I knew that it would happen. I would meet my Ted Mosby.” That’s how Sonam and Nitin’s love story began. Sonam had been on dating apps for a while, but there were always compatibility issues. Her parents were also finding matches for her through matrimonial sites and family connections, but she was looking for someone she could connect with on a much deeper level. In 2019, Sonam’s friend introduced her to Aisle, where she came across Nitin’s profile. “Sonam had written a quote on her profile about how she was looking for her Ted Mosby with her yellow umbrella,” Nitin says. That was it for him. Although they liked each other, it took a communication slip-up for Sonam and Nitin to have a first date. “I was asking Nitin about something, and he thought I was asking him out,” Sonam says. “And I was like, well, why not!” The misunderstanding turned out to be a blessing in disguise. “I remember that I was late for the date by 30 minutes because of some last-minute work stress. Instead of being angry, Nitin loved that I was so dedicated and driven about my work!”, Sonam recollects with a smile. Sonam, on the other hand, was attracted to Nitin’s simplicity and kindness. “He has a good heart and is genuinely kind. You can tell a lot about a person by the way they treat the people around them. And he was not only good to me, but to everyone around him. For me, it was an important quality in a man.” Nitin, on the other hand, loved that Sonam was full of life. “It’s always fun with her. She never says no to any plans I make”, Nitin says. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695095833254-compressed.jpeg) From the moment they met, their conversations flowed easily and they knew they had found something special. Over time, they started meeting more regularly; but it was during the lockdown — when they were both stuck in their individual homes — that they realised they were good for each other. They both loved travelling, trying out new cuisines and spending time with each other. Despite coming from middle-class families with modest means, Sonam and Nitin knew they wanted to build a life together. They share the same values and are each other’s cheerleader as they navigate work and life. “The families were very supportive, even though Nitin is a couple of months younger than me. Once my family met him and his family met me, they realised how good we were together and gave us their blessings.” ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695095845801-compressed.jpeg) Now happily married, Sonam and Nitin are excited about their future together. It is a testament to the fact that sometimes, all it takes is a tap on the right app and a simple misunderstanding to help you find your forever romance. “Give it time”, Nitin says. “Have faith that people are good at heart and give the connection time to grow.” > We agree — taking it slow is the only way to go. Congratulations on your life together, Sonam and Nitin! ![](https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=3fadbb429b76) * * * [Sonam & Nitin: A misunderstanding that changed their life!](https://medium.com/aisle-network/sonam-nitin-a-misunderstanding-that-changed-their-life-3fadbb429b76) was originally published in [Aisle](https://medium.com/aisle-network) on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story. --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Gazal & Ankur: Going the distance! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2023-04-19 Tags: online-dating, stories, aisle, love URL: https://blog.aisle.co/null ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695095986736-compressed.jpeg) The year was 2016. Gazal, a dentist from Mumbai, couldn’t sink her teeth into the idea of arranged marriage. She was tired of going through countless unsuitable matches and matrimony websites. That’s when Gazal decided to take a chance on Aisle. “It was difficult for my parents to understand why their suggested matches were not working out,” she admits. Nearly 1,400 kilometres away, Ankur, who was working with a fast-growing startup, was tired of not finding love on dating apps. As luck would have it, he stumbled upon Gazal’s profile on Aisle and felt drawn to her. “We were in different cities, but I was open to moving for someone worthwhile,” he says. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695096005226-compressed.jpeg) Back in 2016, couples with high compatibility on Aisle would be able to see each other’s phone numbers to encourage conversations. When Ankur sent her an Invite, Gazal decided to not take things further because she was very clear about her potential partner being in the same city. Unsurprisingly, life had other plans for the pair. “I could see her number, so I decided to send her a text anyway,” says Ankur. Gazal came straight to the point when Ankur texted here. “I had a very successful career in my city. So the only way this would move further for me was if he moved here._”_ Their first date was challenging. Gazal found Ankur a bit too intellectual. They struggled to find common ground when he came to Mumbai for the date. “I got a bit bored!” Gazal says. Fate had other plans and the couple began to bond at the last phase of their date — a play near Nariman Point. Gazal and Ankur found each other laughing at the same jokes and having a great conversation. Despite the spark, Gazal was hesitant to pursue the relationship due to different interests and, most importantly, the long distance. She suggested they stop talking before it got too serious. “Although I really liked Ankur, the location was non-negotiable for me,” she confesses. They went their separate ways and even met other people. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695096019371-compressed.jpeg) As time passed, things began to change. Gazal couldn’t get him out of her mind and missed him so much that after two months of silence, she got in touch with Ankur. They picked up right where they left off. “It was so easy, it felt like we had never stopped talking,” says Ankur. Gazal liked him enough to consider moving, but luckily, Ankur managed to make things work with his start-up. Ankur and Gazal have now been married for five years. Though poles apart, they were similar in the most important aspects of life and have built a strong foundation of communication and mutual respect over time. “I really appreciate Ankur’s value system. He’s open, not patriarchal, and an amazing communicator,” says Gazal. It’s true, when destiny is involved, love always finds a way. “The spark and Bollywood-esque butterflies will fade with time. Then, what you’re left with is a partner that you will eventually spend the rest of your life with,” advises the pair. “You need to be sure that it’s what you want long-term. I know I wanted a life with Ankur and I’m really glad I found him,” says Gazal. > We’re glad too, Gazal. Cheers to the years of togetherness to come! ![](https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=4a46b8c03b18) * * * [Gazal & Ankur: Going the distance!](https://medium.com/aisle-network/gazal-ankur-going-the-distance-4a46b8c03b18) was originally published in [Aisle](https://medium.com/aisle-network) on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story. --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Savita & Sachin: The older, the wiser! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2023-03-01 Tags: online-dating, stories, aisle, love URL: https://blog.aisle.co/null ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695103126597-compressed.jpeg) “We’re in our early 40’s now!” says Savita, “Sachin and I coming together is a ray of hope for our friends of a similar age. The thing is, if you truly believe in marriage, love, and companionship, then it’s worth the wait.” Savita and Sachin’s love story began in August 2022, when Savita joined Aisle. Incredibly sure that she was looking for something long-term, Savita added a simple note to her profile that read, ‘I am looking for something serious.’ “It really helped me filter out people who weren’t on the same wavelength as I was”, says Savita. “I was smitten!” recalls Sachin, who stumbled across Savita’s profile on Aisle. “The icing on the cake was that note on her profile. I felt the exact same way.” Their profiles may have sparked interest, but it was their instant connection that sealed the deal. “We instantly hit it off. We gelled well, emotionally, spiritually, and intellectually,” says Savita. Sachin, on the other hand, knew exactly what he was looking for as well. “When you’ve lived as long as I have, you realise what’s really important in life. For me, it was finding the kind of friend and partner that I found in Savita.” As the couple began getting to know one another, they noticed a strange coincidence. “Even though we were absolute strangers, we realised we grew up in the same locality, but somehow met after 40 years on a dating app!” Savita says. “It was uncanny,” adds Sachin, “I was suspicious of this entire thing being a setup! When I told my family about her, we found so many common friends and connections.” ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695103152013-compressed.jpeg) Having been brought together by sheer fate, Savita and Sachin’s lives began to fit together like pieces of a puzzle. Being in their early 40s, the pair had the wisdom to know that lasting relationships can only be made when the decision is not about societal pressure or the need to get married. “I have waited for a long time, because I did not want to compromise on what I wanted in a partner, and neither did Sachin. His belief in the value of marriage, family and love was something that I really gravitated towards,” explains Savita. “I’m very old school, so I was not in it for a short fling. I wanted to find a life partner who was around the same age and maturity as I was,” adds Sachin. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695103188378-compressed.jpeg) By September, the pair realised that they wanted to get married. Everything else simply fell into place. “Everything went over very smoothly with our families,” says Sachin. “His mom is one of the most amazing women I have ever met!” Savita chimes in. As fate would have it, in January 2023, the couple tied the knot. Now, having found their match, they advise others to not pressure themselves but wait for love to come to them. “Do what you want to do, enjoy your life, and don’t pressure yourself. The best way is to have patience and faith that you will find what you’re looking for, when the time is right,” they say. Their love story reminds us that love can find you at any age and that sometimes, all you need is a little bit of patience and fate on your side. > Wishing you all the happiness in the world for your life together! > Written by [Ruchita Sud](https://medium.com/u/c00f0a208729) ![](https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=e583c47e533b) * * * [Savita & Sachin: The older, the wiser!](https://medium.com/aisle-network/savita-sachin-the-older-the-wiser-e583c47e533b) was originally published in [Aisle](https://medium.com/aisle-network) on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story. --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Jessvin & Angelica: Love across oceans! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2023-01-22 Tags: online-dating, stories, aisle URL: https://blog.aisle.co/null ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695103227555-compressed.jpeg) Two people, different, yet the same, separated by thousands of miles and oceans, yet connected by their search for real romance — all it took was two clicks of a button to bring them together! Jessvin and Angelica’s story began when Angelica, living in the Philippines, joined Aisle in January 2021. She was curious to know what it would be like to meet someone of Indian origin. As fate would have it, she received an invite from Jessvin. The couple is now happily married, but it was a journey to get to this point, as they reveal in their conversation with us. **Filipino and Indian, that’s quite the match. What encouraged you two to keep talking, despite being from different nationalities and cultures?** **J-** _I love Angelica’s simplicity and her perspective on life. She has an incredibly kind and friendly personality._ **A-** _What struck me first was his genuine nature. He’s also really witty and fun to be around. I think his willingness to wait for me patiently, even though we were over a thousand miles apart and in completely different countries, really made a difference._ ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695103241973-compressed.jpeg) **We love a good meet-cute! Tell us, what was your first date like?** **J-** _Well, that took some time… our first ‘in-person’ date was over a year after we first matched on Aisle. We were both eager to see one another, so I travelled to her hometown in the Philippines._ **A-** _It was so exciting! In that moment, I felt like the luckiest woman in the world. It was all so surreal… we couldn’t believe that after a year of talking online, we finally got to see each other._ **Long-distance can be daunting, so what made you realise this was more than just a phase?** **J-** _When Angelica told her family about us, I realised she was as serious about me as I was about her. Given our differences, I knew it would be difficult, but she is and will always be worth fighting for. There was a lot of anticipation of how my family would react to our relationship. But, when they saw how great we were together, everyone accepted us with open arms._ **A-** _No matter what, Jessvin always makes sure I’m okay. He was willing to fight for our relationship despite us belonging to a very different culture and tradition. Even though an arranged marriage was common and expected in his family, Jessvin fought for us and stood his ground._ ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695103259055-compressed.jpeg) **Let’s get to the good stuff — what are your favourite things about your partner?** **J-** _I love how much she cares about me, even the little things. I always make an extra effort to return the love and affection. Other than that, I admire her clarity of thought. Angelica is determined and knows what she’s looking for. We also share the same interests in music and a mutual love for chess._ **A-** _Jessvin is a very unique guy, he’s smart, funny and I can’t help but laugh at all of his crazy jokes. He also knows how to play chess which is one of my favourite board games. I adore his desire to start a family with me, even though we met online. Honestly, he’s living proof that there are still sensible men in the world._ **What advice would you give singles looking for their perfect partner?** **J-** _Don’t worry too much about finding the perfect person. The aim is to find someone who you’d be comfortable living with as you grow older. Someone that will embrace your differences._ **A-** _Just enjoy being single! Don’t commit to a relationship if you aren’t ready. Have fun, and make the most being single while you can. Once you decide to get into a relationship, it should be a lifelong commitment!_ ![](https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/1*HezbsO18UcquqzUwRvZTug.jpeg) Jessvin and Angelica are proof that if it’s meant to be, relationships work from even halfway across the world! > Wishing you all the best for your life ahead Jessivin & Angelica! > Written by [Ruchita Sud](https://medium.com/u/c00f0a208729) ![](https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=7199f41dab51) * * * [Jessvin & Angelica: Love across oceans!](https://medium.com/aisle-network/jessvin-angelica-love-across-oceans-7199f41dab51) was originally published in [Aisle](https://medium.com/aisle-network) on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story. --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Honey & Amith: Love in frame! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2022-12-07 Tags: online-dating, stories, aisle, love URL: https://blog.aisle.co/null ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695103292184-compressed.jpeg) ‘It’s forever!’ reads a picture of Honey and Amith on their social media account, followed by a string of comments from their loved ones. A jungle safari, a pretty picture with the setting sun, scenic videos — the account, aptly named ‘Destined Together’ details the adventures the pair took on their way to falling in love. _“Every picture we have together is perfectly framed. They tell a story about what real, intentional dating looks like,”_ reveals Amith, a wildlife conservationist, and storyteller. Even their first date is marked by a perfectly framed picture. _“After a recent breakup, I realised that the dating pool in my hometown had become very small,”_ Honey, an avid women’s rights advocate, explains, _“A friend of mine suggested I join Aisle to expand my search. It took me almost six months to muster up the courage and make a profile!”_ Amith, on the other hand, had taken a brief break from the app. _“To cheer myself up on a bad day, I decided to open the app on a whim.”_ Pleasantly surprised to see Honey’s profile appear, Amith quickly responded to her Invite. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695103307931-compressed.jpeg) Although they were 1500 km apart when they first matched, the pair had far more in common than they initially thought. The pair shared a love for animals, travel, and a rather quirky sense of humour. _“Amith is an avid wildlife photographer, and I am an avid creator of animal memes,”_ jokes Honey. In fact, their first date spanned five different locations. Sparks flew from the moment they met. It was nothing short of magic. _“Our first date was like something straight out of a Bollywood movie. You won’t believe it, but my heel broke at the end of the night. Amith graciously asked the hotel staff for an extra pair of slippers for me!”,_ recounts Honey. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695103322202-compressed.jpeg) Even far apart, Honey and Amith’s relationship and commitment grew stronger. The long-distance couple often set off to different wildlife locations and adventure trails across the country, eager to document every part of their love story on the way. _“The excitement never ends with Amith and me! Our most recent trip was to the Bhadra Tiger reserve,”_ recounts Honey. _“We saw the flower that only blooms only once in 14 years. It’s humbling to see something so beautiful with a person who you deeply love,”_ adds Amith. Soon to get hitched in early 2023, Honey and Amith agree that it takes a lot of patience, positivity, and a little bit of creativity to make a relationship like theirs work. _“You cannot force a relationship, no matter how hard you try. You put the work in, but if it is not meant to be, then there is nothing you can do to control it,”_ Honey concludes. And so, with the chemistry, connection, and compatibility that Honey and Amith share with each other, their love, like their picture caption, is forever. > Wishing you a lifetime of picture-perfect romance Honey and Amith! > Written by [Ruchita Sud](https://medium.com/u/c00f0a208729) ![](https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=d0246a5b9957) * * * [Honey & Amith: Love in frame!](https://medium.com/aisle-network/honey-amith-love-in-frame-d0246a5b9957) was originally published in [Aisle](https://medium.com/aisle-network) on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story. --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Why Aisle couples chose high-intent Author: Team Aisle Published: 2022-11-25 Tags: online-dating, aisle, business URL: https://blog.aisle.co/null ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/image-cp-1695103349621-compressed.png) At the House of Aisle, our dating apps were built to help users **break the casual dating pattern**, and allow for something more meaningful to take its place. That’s not to say that serious relationships are the only way to go, but when a deeply indecisive casual dating culture begins to take over a quest for love, **it might be time to establish intent.** The concept of high-intent dating comes from the idea that everyone deserves valuable time and space in a potential partner’s life. In our search for individuals who chose Aisle’s high-intent dating over casual dating apps, we came across a few couples who found their forever romances on Aisle and tied the knot. We quizzed them: _Why did you choose Aisle over the other apps out there?_ Some said that discussing intentions with a partner was one way to be honest with themselves. It was a chance to demand a deeper connection, rather than just a few meaningless dates. Popular media may have made many of us believe that setting intentions early on limits our options at finding a match; the truth is far from it. “The intention behind meeting someone new must mean something more than just a surface-level meet-up,” one couple said, speaking about high-intent dating. ‘We found that having clarity about what we want helped us avoid the sort of partner we would not be comfortable with”, said another. Establishing intent early on allowed them the freedom to get to know one another without wasting energy on second-guessing each other’s true motivations. However, being intentional is not synonymous with forcing a perfect love story on your partner. It’s about creating an awareness of one’s core values and beliefs. “I didn’t want a hookup, and neither did he. Turns out we both wanted someone to build a life with. It’s incredibly difficult to make that clear in a new relationship, but with intentionality, it’s possible and it only brought us closer together”, said another happy couple, who had initially given up on finding a partner after previously unhappy marriages. All of which is great, but what exactly does high-intent dating involve? Put simply, there are some things you would want in a partner that are just non-negotiable. We found that for some couples these non-negotiable aspects may involve finding someone to match their values, personalities, quirks, field of work, or even aspects concerning social behaviour and vices. High-intent dating revolves around being intentional in what you seek in your special someone, including the non-negotiables. It helps bring clarity to what matters the most. “I think I’m pretty weird… I wanted to be with someone who can match that energy one way or the other!” said another couple. Incidentally, Aisle’s user interface is designed to help individuals looking for their special someone get specific about who they’re looking for and what matters the most to them. Like the philosophies feature, that dives deeper into choices through a series of Either/Or questions around travel, lifestyle, and having children. During our conversations with the couples, we also learned that the fear of rejection traps singles into a never-ending cycle of accepting less than what they deserve. High-intent dating combats this by helping individuals fearlessly establish ground rules with a potential partner, by building the confidence to take a risk and put oneself out there. Does this mean that high-intent dating works like a pack of ready-mix batters and happens instantly? No, say the couples. It takes time, but the difference is in starting off on more solid ground that tip-toeing around each other. _“Our advice? Be patient and brave when meeting someone new. Talking about your plan early on is tough, but may just help you find your perfect partner”_, aptly said another now-happily-married couple that met on Aisle. > Written by [Ruchita Sud](https://medium.com/u/c00f0a208729) ![](https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=6ba12797e90a) * * * [Why Aisle couples chose high-intent](https://medium.com/aisle-network/why-aisle-couples-chose-high-intent-6ba12797e90a) was originally published in [Aisle](https://medium.com/aisle-network) on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story. --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Aarushi & Bhavneet: When poets fall in love! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2022-10-20 Tags: stories, aisle, love, online dating URL: https://blog.aisle.co/null ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1hi9yzxwkbohshudod56ocg-1716454440598-compressed.webp) _Two worlds collide,_ _A pair, find themselves at the end_ _– of a dating app named Aisle._ _Judgments remain seated, wedding guests turn wild,_ _Is it possible to find true love online, hook-ups aside?_ \*\*\* Self-confessed poets Aarushi and Bhavneet have no doubt in their minds that they were destined to meet, and Aisle was fated to be the cupid of their love story. ‘For god’s sake, it’s time to get rid of the notion that you cannot find true love on dating apps’ says Aarushi, as she narrates the story of how she met the love of her life, fellow poet and now-fiancé Bhavneet. Set to make a grand reveal at their wedding, these lovebirds are on a mission to change the perspective of how dating apps are viewed by friends, family, and a large part of the older generation. ‘People have too many pre-conceived ideas about dating apps,’ say the couple, ‘very few people know we met on Aisle; it’s time to change that.’ ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1qgwztteqx4vnpzm9bzfqa-1716454465092-compressed.webp) It all began in 2021, from the moment Bhavneet sent Aarushi an invite on Aisle. The couple had an almost uncanny connection — from personality traits and spiritual beliefs to the locality they grew up in. ‘I love poetry; unsurprisingly, so did Aarushi. So, when we first matched, we only spoke in poetic lines and quotes,’ reminisces Bhavneet. Their love of words was in tough competition with their mutual adoration for animals, though. In fact, their first date was a trip to the vet. “The date was only for a little over half an hour, but it was so real — there was no facade,” explains Bhavneet. “To tell you the truth, he talked to my dogs more than me during our date. I fell for him right then and there!”, adds Aarushi. Lively Aarushi had finally met her match in the outgoing and fun-loving Bhavneet. “We are so many different versions of ourselves in our daily lives — with Bhavneet, I am unapologetically myself,” says Aarushi. Things quickly began to fall into place for the pair. The couple soon found that their families were an even better match! “We are all very fond of one another. Both our families often have dinners and celebrate important family events together.” ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/18b4oesvg-bno0snsoferia-1716454483350-compressed.webp) Now at the cusp of a happy married life, the couple claims that the secret to a great relationship is to first lay the groundwork with a strong friendship. “Before lovers, partners, or anything else in between, we are best friends. We will stand by this all our lives,” quips the couple. With their story, Aarushi and Bhavneet have set the stage to change perceptions about online dating. As for the wedding? The couple already has a plan in place. “We both have a screen recording of the final screen on Aisle when you try to delete the app,” reveals the couple. “We will be showing this to our guests at the wedding. The epilogue of our online courtship and the beginning of a new life started with three words on the Aisle app: “I’ve met someone.”’ \*\*\* _…And so the pair state;_ _‘This online love, not chance, but fate._ _A true match set on Aisle,_ _I’ve met someone — and it’s been more than worthwhile.’_ --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Himanshi & Rohit: Love with a hint of magic! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2022-09-21 Tags: online-dating, stories, aisle, love URL: https://blog.aisle.co/null ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1shajxp-thnqxc37nynammg-1716453999741-compressed.webp) Picture this: You’re out to meet a date who has travelled over 800 kilometres to see you. This is the first time you’re meeting, and you’re eager to impress. You take out your bike in a hurry, praying none of your neighbours see you leaving, that too with a date. And then — your bike refuses to start! That was Himanshi and Rohit’s first date. Himanshi recalls this moment between bouts of laughter, “I was soo embarrassed! I kept trying, but the bike wouldn’t budge. Rohit kept offering to help the whole time. He had no idea what to do with it either.” Rohit on the other hand had already fallen head over heels for her, “Himanshi just looked so cute… she cared so much about me and the fact that we couldn’t go for a bike ride.” “I didn’t care about that!” protests Himanshi “I was really concerned about my bike!” ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1rxb4talikk1iwtjckmkrtg-1716454024547-compressed.webp) Travelling from Gurugram to Varanasi that day proved to be well worth it for Rohit. Accompanied by the serene sounds of a temple, a gentle breeze and fresh coconut water; their first date was nothing short of magic. “I will never forget that day. We spoke for hours,” said Himanshi, “I took him to see the ghats. We went on a relaxing boat ride and watched as the sun rose over the entire city.” The two believe that this magical feeling was partly owed to the strong foundation they had built early on. When the couple first matched on Aisle, they left no stone unturned. Himanshi and Rohit spoke at length about their life goals, desires, and expectations from a partner. “It’s best to be clear as early as possible,” said Himanshi. “We agreed that we would be honest about what we wanted. If this was not working for either of us at any point, we wouldn’t beat around the bush,” recalls Rohit. As months went by, the couple realised that they could not have been more suited for one another. Be it the way they speak, their values, or even their life goals. “We both believe in clean living and eating healthy,” said the couple. “We have near identical thoughts on health and fitness.” The similarities didn’t just end there, Himanshi and Rohit also belong to the same field of expertise. Understandably, the couple often finds themselves lost in conversations about their field! ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1o25o5grmtp2xnxsi8rg0a-1716454076528-compressed.webp) As the two grew closer, so did the pressure to get married from Himanshi’s family. “We had only been talking for a few months back then, I wasn’t expecting very much. So I took the chance and asked Rohit ‘My father wants me to find me a groom, what should I tell him?’” As it turns out, Rohit was more than happy to oblige! Himanshi and Rohit are now set to tie the knot early next year. When asked about what they wanted from their new life together, the two responded in unison, “We’re looking forward to building the best life possible together. Our goal is to live a happy and fulfilled life, take care of our finances, and have a focused lifestyle.” Their advice for singles was simple — “At the end of the day, we’re all on the same boat. We all need someone to hold our hand and support us when things get tough. Everyone needs a partner at some point. Our advice is: don’t give up. Live your life, go out, meet new people, and don’t back down because other people may judge you.” --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Vishnu & Nivedya: A journey of eternal bliss! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2022-08-21 Tags: stories, aisle, love, online dating URL: https://blog.aisle.co/null ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1uuieirdujuwim79b5gb4ma-1716456519157-compressed.webp) A perpetual fire burns at a temple deep in the Rudraprayag district of Uttarakhand. Surrounded by mountains, this ancient temple is said to be the very spot where Lord Shiva married his beloved, Goddess Parvati. A spot where now, Vishnu and Nivedya hope to have their own wedding ceremony. “We already got legally married in July 2022”, explains the sweet couple, “But we want to have a significant ritual of the ceremony here at the temple.” With no more than 20 attendees at their July wedding, this couple was adamant about celebrating their love the way they had envisioned when they first met. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1sntoziecr6-x66itesddow-1716456540706-compressed.webp) Now happily married and set to fulfil a long wish list of travel destinations, the newlyweds narrate the story of how it all began. Making it to this point was no easy feat. Before Vishnu and Nivedya matched on Aisle, they were somewhat disillusioned by the casual dating scene. The two finally signed up on Aisle hoping to find something more meaningful. “I had been using dating apps for a while before Aisle happened. It’s really difficult to find someone who is looking for serious commitment nowadays”, Vishnu points out. Nivedya was also in a similar mindset, “After my divorce, I decided I wanted to start dating again. I wanted to settle down, but I knew arranged marriage was not for me.” When Nivedya’s family began to bring in proposals, she decided to find someone for herself. Nivedya was pleasantly surprised when she first saw Vishnu’s profile on Aisle. “I must say– I’m a complete feminist. Most men find this slightly difficult to digest. Vishnu turned out to be more of a feminist than I was!” Amazed at how lucky he was to find Nivedya, Vishnu had his own first impressions. “She was so outspoken. I was very impressed by her ability to make strong decisions.” ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1ni0dzncgcdhu4dum-qhtq-1716456575062-compressed.webp) The connection Vishnu and Nivedya found in one another felt like divine intervention. After only the first few days of talking, the two were sure of their commitment to one another. “Something just clicked. There was no doubt in our minds that we would ultimately be together,” remarked the couple. Over time, this feeling was strengthened by the mutual trust, respect, and unwavering support they had for one another. “We both had our own set of problems to deal with”, Vishnu explains. “He has a physical disability and had been through a few bad experiences in the past. On the other hand, I was just coming out of a terrible marriage,” added Nivedya, “We were both very supportive of each other.” Now gearing up for their temple ceremony, the couple claims that practicing complete transparency is the best way to go when dating online. “It’s better, to be honest. I think it’s important not to lie or try to cheat someone else. After all, if we want safety for ourselves online, we need to make sure others are safe as well”, said Vishnu. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1lsxqlxqmzntknvtox16cw-1716456604029-compressed.webp) Having been through their fair share of hardships, the couple finally found a fresh start with one another. Just like the eternal love of Shiva and Parvathi, Nivedya and Vishnu now look forward to having a lifetime of love and happiness together. “It took a long time, but I finally found the one for me,”confessed Nivedya. “I would say, don’t rush into a relationship. There is someone for everyone, even if it takes a while to find them. I’m glad I waited.”​ ​ --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Shubha & Yogesh: An ode to second chances! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2022-07-22 Tags: online-dating, stories, aisle, love URL: https://blog.aisle.co/null ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1a1wsiklj5dpgydsdetnbba-1716446312391-compressed.webp) When Shubha met Yogesh for the first time, she thought he was a little ‘too nice’ for her. Yogesh was kind, quiet and considerate — and yet, not the sort of personality she thought she would get along with. Nevertheless, Shubha decided to give it a chance. A bit skeptical in the beginning, Shubha wasn’t sure if online dating was her cup of tea. Yogesh, on the other hand, thought signing up for a dating app meant matching with people who had little-to-no desire to find a long-term partner. Naturally, when the couple first matched on Aisle in late 2021, they had a bit of a slow start. The two spoke on Aisle for a short time and even exchanged numbers. One would think that what followed would be the beginnings of a typical Aisle love story, but for seemingly no reason at all; the two stopped talking. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1m7exq7eh7lqrva9xcukg8a-1716446403543-compressed.webp) You can call it what you may– fate, destiny, or just a plain old case of coincidence, but a few months later the two got talking again. “I was looking at my old chats one day and saw Shubha again. I wanted to know how she was doing … so I texted her”, said Yogesh, thanking his lucky stars he did, because since then, the two have never stopped talking. Unable to explain exactly what drew her to Yogesh the second time around, Shubha concluded, “There was something so genuine about his smile. I remember being very excited to meet him!” ​As a matter of fact, Yogesh distinctly remembers feeling the same way for Shubha. “I really loved her smile,” he said simply. And just like that, chemistry took over; conversation became effortless, every date felt like the very first, and their connection grew stronger. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1lbfnce2-9usqr03jgxagdw-1716446430173-compressed.webp) The fairytale does not always have to work out the first time around. Having been in unhappy marriages before, both Shubha and Yogesh were dealing with their share of baggage. “We were both in a difficult place emotionally, and had a lot to unpack,” said the couple. All of Shubha’s initial doubts about Yogesh soon vanished. As time went on, she began to understand his patient and empathetic personality. “Yogesh puts a lot of effort into building our relationship. He is an extremely hardworking, responsible and family-oriented guy.” Unsurprisingly, Yogesh had a similar opinion. “I love how independent and responsible she is. Being the only breadwinner in her family, I am amazed at how she takes such good care of the people she loves.” Speaking of family, Shubha’s mother couldn’t be happier about the relationship. “Oh! she loves him”, remarks Shubha, “She believes he’s the perfect match for me.” ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1i0-ed3g3gngzw-bvestclg-1716446452351-compressed.webp) The couple now recommends Aisle to almost all their friends and family. “Without the app, we would have never found one another. It is amazing how many different people you can meet on the app. In our opinion, the best feature of Aisle is that it is not a place for hookups.” In their free time, Shubha and Yogesh can be found jet-setting to different travel locations, trying out new cuisines, or even exploring a popular pub in the city tearing up the dance floor. ‘So is marriage on the cards?’ we asked the couple. “We are in no hurry at all, it will happen in its own time. Having had sour experiences in the past, we are willing to wait. A wedding is only the beginning, not the accomplishment. It’s the bond between two people that matters more.” Cheers to that, Shubha and Yogesh. We couldn’t agree more. Wishing you all the happiness in the world for your life together! --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. --- ## Rosalin & Sandeep: A touch of serendipity! Author: Team Aisle Published: 2022-07-01 Tags: online-dating, stories, aisle, love URL: https://blog.aisle.co/null ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1an2-qnlkn9cdu35x6gl7sw-1716445734071-compressed.webp) Rosalin and Sandeep’s relationship had a rather comical start. Sparks flew from the moment they matched. From speaking about their shared love for travel to their favourite breed of dogs, it took them just 24 hours to know that _this_ was headed in the right direction. They decided to meet. And that’s when they realised — they lived in different cities! This couple found each other against all odds; all it took was hope, patience, and a little bit of humour. “The best thing about us is that we’re both foodies — I love to cook and he loves to eat! He’s my best friend. I can’t even explain how fun he is to have around, days just fly by with him,” jokes Rosalin as she narrates the story of how she met her partner on Aisle. ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1yism1gkj1ocugfiqcmkew-1716445777993-compressed.webp) The couple first matched on Aisle right at the beginning of the pandemic and somehow managed to meet. “Everything went into lockdown right after we met, due to which we couldn’t meet for another year!” said the couple. As the world was dealing with the extraordinary circumstances of the pandemic, the couple decided to make the best out of a bad situation. “Once work from home began, Sandeep decided to move to Bangalore to be with me,”said Rosalin. “We’ve had our fair share of challenges — his parents were not happy with his decision, and Sandeep did not talk to them for months. It is incredibly difficult to not talk to your parents, but he did it all for me.” ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1ujs5zc2xcrvu6hk6lz8ta-1716445809242-compressed.webp) The couple’s relationship blossomed against all odds, but soon they had to face the reality of their situation. There were simply too many factors working against them. “It wasn’t easy; Sandeep’s family did not approve of me at first, because we belonged to different faiths. Family is very important to the two of us, so if his parents had not agreed; we would not have continued our relationship,” recounts Rosalin. “Love is like a fruit, you cannot eat it until it’s completely ripe. No relationship is perfect and things are not always easy, but everything works out if you give it enough time. You have to put in the work and be patient. We waited for a very long time” says the couple. “Something somewhere was working in our favour, and after a lot of convincing; his parents finally agreed. Now I talk to his mother more than him!”, says Rosalin with a sense of utter relief. “We were made for each other. He takes all of my jokes so sportingly! I can’t remember the last time we had a fight. Even if we do fight — one of us ends up laughing, we’re both so bad at it!” ![](https://superblog.supercdn.cloud/site_cuid_clmk76ho096103um3c742ca19/images/1ggqowz5hp4zhikihqpyzgg-1716445837238-compressed.webp) Rosalin and Sandeep were brought together by sheer serendipity, and could not have been a better match. In due course, Rosalin and Sandeep finally found their happy ending. “We both love to travel, even though it’s always last minute. We usually get done with work on Friday and spontaneously decide to take a trip. The two of us pack a small bag and we’re off!” remarks Sandeep. As for the wedding? Rosalin and Sandeep have their own take: “A grand wedding is not important to us, we already have each other. One fine day we will go to court and get married, that’s all!” --- This blog is powered by Superblog. Visit https://superblog.ai to know more. ---